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He began to pursue Julie, who was friendly and nice but definitely wasn t worshipping him (or at least didn t act like it.
One of them was if James wanted to go out drinking with his friends Sliding Gate Wheel and show up at her house later to stay the night, that was OK, but if he wasn t at her house by 9 p. I let her do the pursuing in this case. Because I ll tell you what, if they don t meet your standards out of the gate, it is only going to get worse.
Well one day James was introduced to a mutual friend of ours, whom I ll call Julie. See who does capture his attention and remember it works both ways. Well (and this was before cell phones) by 12:10 she had not called and guess what? I was out the door. He dated several women at once and they always fell in love with him. That is ridiculous. James was intrigued. Stop right now. Here is a scenario that is flip flopped a little bit, with the man dating women who feel lucky he gives them the time of day. After all, they were fair expectations and showed Julie respected herself enough to not put up with any of his shenanigans. She told me she was busy until lunchtime on Sunday and then she would call me to arrange where we could meet.
I once knew a guy I ll call James who made the women crazy.
For instance, once a girl wanted to go out with me.
He had never been given restrictions in anything he did. Well Julie didn t appear to fall for his charms right away, but had fun being goofy and silly with him. He drove them completely wild.Some of you out there Post Cap have had some bad raps with women, have had a rough time of it and aren t really sure if you re worthy of a good woman because you ve just had a string of bad luck. Julie wouldn t put up with his behavior for one second.
Well, I ll tell you what, he quickly decided to toe the line. What ends up happening is that you start feeling grateful for any woman who will look your way. But he is not interested in them.
If I had waited around, it would have showed that I would tolerate someone who was late, who I could not count on.
Here s another example of dating with dignity., he could sleep there, but she wasn t going to have sex with him.
If you are dating someone or contemplating dating them, lay down the law right away about what you will put up with and what you won t.
So you need to go into the relationship expecting to be treated with dignity and not like you are lucky to be dating at all.
James, who had his way for years, stringing women along and basically putting his friends first before anyone he was dating, had an awakening. You and every other man who isn t a psychopath or total Jackhole deserves someone who will treat you like the rockstar you are inside. Gone.)
Before too long, James and Julie were an item.
Imagine all the women who were astounded to find out that less than a year after they began dating, James and Julie were getting married.
She set up rules for the relationship. Not reachable and not interested.m. The problem was he never fell for any of them.